An Ode to 33 Years Around the Sun

I captured this magnificent cherry tree in blossom in May 2019 at Urban Roots Garden Center in Buffalo, NY

I captured this magnificent cherry tree in blossom in May 2019 at Urban Roots Garden Center in Buffalo, NY

May 8, 2020


Today I turn 33 and I thought, what better way to express my gratitude than share words that have had great influence on my life.

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in life is to not only learn from my own experiences, but from what other people have experienced, too. I am an avid reader and have collected the words of others for years, carrying them around with me as keepsakes when I need them most.

Here’s to a new year of life filled with nature’s gifts.


On gratitude, a reading from our wedding:

β€œI am grateful for what I am and have. My thanksgiving is perpetual. It is surprising how contented one can be with nothing definite - only a sense of existence. My breath is sweet to me. Oh, how I laugh when I think of my vague, indefinite riches! No run on my bank can drain it, for my wealth is not possession but enjoyment.”
— henry david thoreau, poem: mindprints

On conviction:

β€œI decided to start anew - to strip away what I had been taught - to accept as true my own thinking.”
— Georgia O'Keefe

On growth:

β€œLike wildflowers, you must allow yourself to grow in all the places people never thought you would.”
— E.V. Thompson

On respect, from my grandma:

β€œIf you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all.”
— My Grandma

On productivity:

β€œDone is better than good.”
— Elizabeth Gilbert, Book: Big Magic: Creative living beyond fear

On commitment:

β€œHow much we are the fires we tend, the bread we bake, the gardens we plant along our paths, the love we nurture and share. How much tending they take. But what warmth, what nourishment, what joy they bring, and give, and preserve for the next day and the day after that, if we care to turn an ember into a spark.”
— todd r. nelson, article: β€˜Embers’ in taproot magazine

On stewardship:

β€œWe have the world to live in on the condition that we will take good care of it. And to take good care of it, we have to know it. And to know it and to be willing to take care of it, we have to love it.”
— Wendell Berry

On nature:

β€œAnd the scientists, no matter how much they investigate nature, no matter how far they research, they only come to realize in the end how perfect and mysterious nature really is. To believe that by research and invention humanity can create something better than nature is an illusion.”
— Masanobu Fukuoka, book: the one-straw revolution

On sharing knowledge:

β€œWhen you sow a seed once, you will reap a single harvest. When you teach the people, you will reap one hundred harvests.”
— Kuan Chung

On following dreams:

β€œI saw that my life was a vast glowing empty page and I could do anything I wanted.”
— Jack Kerouac, book: on the road

On unconditional love, from our wedding song:

β€œThat’s how you live free, truly see and be seen.”
— father john misty, song: when you’re smiling and astride me

On living truthfully:

β€œYou can be a musician, an accountant, or a sexy powerful creative beast β€” but you have to be yourself first.”
— James Victore, book: Feck Perfuction

On believing in yourself:

β€œYou have no idea how high I can fly.”
— Michael Scott, tv show: The Office

On vulnerability:

β€œThe garden has found its voice and is speaking to me just as, sometimes, in rooms that have been locked up a long time, old pieces of furniture suddenly speak to us at critical moments in our experience. For we inevitably extend our own lives to the inatimate objects ... that we think of daily.

Then when the strength of some emotion makes us feel how small and weak we are, or when we need advice or help, we turn instinctively to this world that is both familiar to us and strange; and at a stroke it gives us back the life we have lent it from day to day.”
— Vicente Blasco Ibanez, Book: A Novelist's Tour of the World

On openheartedness:

β€œIt is worse to stay where one does not belong at all than to wander about lost for a while and looking for the psychic and soulful kinship one requires.”
— Clarissa Pinkola EstΓ©s,Β book: Women Who Run With the Wolves

On contentment, from my favorite book:

β€œβ€˜And how long do you think we can keep up this goddamn coming and going?’ he asked.
[…]
β€˜Forever,’ he said.”
— gabriel garcia marquez, book: love in the time of cholera

On consumption & action:

β€œThe greatest change we need to make is from consumption to production, even if on a small scale, in our own gardens. If only 10% of us do this, there is enough for everyone. Hence the futility of revolutionaries who have no gardens, who depend on the very system they attack, and who produce words and bullets, not food and shelter.”
— Bill Mollison

On inner fire:

β€œYou were wild once. Don’t let them tame you.”
— Isadora Duncan

On saying no:

β€œIf you’re not in the arena also getting your ass kicked, I’m not interested in your feedback.”
— Brene Brown

On expressing individuality:

β€œPROTEST AGAINST THE RISING TIDE OF CONFORMITY”
— A 1960s poster advertisement by Booth’s β€˜House of Lords’ Gin

On accepting responsibility:

β€œClimate change is the single biggest thing that humans have ever done on this planet. The one thing that needs to be bigger is our movement to stop it.”
— Bill McKibben

On failure:

β€œFor a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come completely undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To someone who doesn’t understand growth, it would look like complete destruction.”
— Cynthia Occelli

On being present:

β€œI close my eyes and listen to the voices of the rain.”
— Robin Wall Kimmerer,Β book: Braiding Sweetgrass

On transformation, from my favorite poem:

β€œAll night I rose and fell, as if in water,
grappling with a luminous doom. By morning
I had vanished at least a dozen times
into something better.”
— Mary Oliver, Excerpt from poem: Sleeping in the Forest

On sense of place:

β€œAnd into the forest I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.”
— John Muir

On seeing beyond what’s in front of you:

β€œAn Onondaga elder once explained to me that plants come to us when they are needed. If we show them respect by using them and appreciating their gifts they will grow stronger. They will stay with us as long as they are respected. But if we forget about them, they will leave.”
— Robin Wall Kimmerer, Book: Gathering Moss

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